Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss

Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...

The Negativity Bias That Brings Down Relationships

He says you look beautiful tonight… But all you can remember is the last time you wore this outfit and the rude comment he made. He says he’s never loved you more than he does right now… But all you can remember is that time you argued and he said he regretted ever...

How to get him to commit?

This article is part of James Bauer’s top four relationship question. What do you do when a guy you really like has other love interests and is kind of on the fence about a committed relationship with you as a result? This issue came up a lot from those of you...

How To Get Out of the Friend Zone

This article is part of James Bauer’s top four relationship question. The dreaded “friend zone” can be a frustrating trap. No one wants to get caught in it. Allow me to offer a few tips on breaking free of the friend zone to become the object of his...

When You’re Tired of Waiting on His Promises

Has this ever happened to you? He swears he’s in love with you. He wants you to have a future together. He makes a promise to you. But… He’ll delays telling his friends you’re his girlfriend, promising to do so when the timing is better. He’ll find a place for the two...

Should You Settle?

“Should I hold out for something better? Or should I settle for what I’ve got?” I’ve heard that question so many times. Mostly from women who are just starting relationships, but sometimes I hear it from women who are about to walk down the aisle. For those women,...