James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Just how much ________ can you handle?” This question opens the mind to imagine positive extremes. For example, “Just how much fun can you handle in a single weekend?” Or, “Just how much...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What if __________?” What if I could teach you a method to influence someone’s thoughts easily and automatically? Do you think that would be a useful skill? The fact is, as soon as I asked that question, I began to...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What happens when you imagine ______?” Fill in the blank with something you want to plant in his mind. In order to answer the question, he first has to imagine the scenario with the two of you. For example,...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Remember ________?” Shared life experiences create the bonds that form relationships. Use this prompt to recall a funny, enjoyable, awe-inspiring, or intimate moment the two of you have shared. Recalling a memory together...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Was it fair of __________ to _________?” We try to avoid being judgmental, but we love it when someone asks us directly to judge a situation. Become his “just between us” confidant with this formula. Examples: “Was it fair...
James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What was the defining moment of _________ ?” Asking about a defining moment reveals what’s important to him. It’s a great conversation starter, and it’s usually something he can reply to quickly in a text. Examples: “What...
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