Sometimes, people who want to make you happy give you really bad advice. For example… It’s frustrating to watch someone you care about agonize over a guy who doesn’t even know she exists. Her unreciprocated love doesn’t just make her suffer; it makes everyone around... Have you ever seen a “mentalist” perform? Mentalists are stage magicians who specialize in “mind control” tricks. Here’s an example. The mentalist asks you to think of a number. While you’re thinking, he writes a number down on a clipboard right in front of you, but... You smile at a cute guy across the room. He saunters over. And you start talking. Things are going great… Until the music starts blaring. Making talking impossible. And the lights dim. Making it hard to see each other. People dance, bumping into you. Which is... It happens in every relationship. You say something, and there’s an awkward silence. Tension descends. Something’s wrong. You don’t know what. He looks away. His mouth is tight. Fear hits you in the gut. You’re losing him! You can’t let that happen. What you do next... You’re out and about. You see a guy you’re interested in. You get his attention with welcoming body language. He approaches. Introductions occur. There’s a nervous, excited vibe between the two of you. But what follows is just… nothing. Silence. Because neither of you... Everyone says, “I’ll believe it when I see it.” But what if that’s backwards? What if you can’t see something until you believe it’s possible? Let me give you an example. Every day, men smile at women they’d secretly love to get to know better. Women smile back,... 
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