Dressing to Attract Men

Is it better to be conventionally attractive… Or is it better to look interesting? I’ll tell you what I’ve noticed about the effect this has for women, but first, let me tell you about guys who have tested this idea. “Peacocking” is rooted in Mother Nature’s design...

3 Communication Secrets to Boost Conversation Quality

Bethany will never forget the last meal out she had with the man she thought she was going to marry. They’d gone to their favorite Mexican restaurant, the scene of so many happy times. They ate in silence. She asked him how work was. He grunted. She asked him if he...

What He Sees in You

How long does it take for a man to know if he’s attracted to you? He knows from the moment he sets eyes on you. In hard numbers, that’s 100 milliseconds. Researchers at Princeton found that we’re most accurate when it comes to making snap judgements about two traits:...

This Creates More Freedom in Your Life

Is there something you KNOW you need to do… But you just can’t seem to do it? I mean something like looking for a new job. Or organizing your photos. Or putting serious effort into dating. We often put off things we dread or things that aren’t urgent. That’s normal....

How Far Are You Willing to Go?

How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not worth...

Which is Better for Your Love Life: Being Cautious or Optimistic?

Scarlett and Aaron were going to have an amazing life together. She knew it in her bones. She’d never had a relationship this good. And she knew—even if Aaron didn’t—that he’d never had it this good, either. The problem was that he was pretending. Pretending he wasn’t...