5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)

When you meet a man you really like, you don’t feel like keeping your options open. You want to be with him and only him. So you give him the best gift of all: Your complete and whole-hearted commitment. You keep your weekends open for him. You take down your dating...

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that… “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not...

Will You Get Back Together? Ways to Tell

I’m often asked whether it is possible for love to be rekindled. If a man lost interest, can he fall for you all over again? I’m happy to reassure my clients that yes, it’s possible! Couples get back together all the time. A YouGov poll of 22,000 Americans found that...

It’s All My Fault, Isn’t It?

When things go wrong with a guy… How often do you think to yourself, “It’s all my fault”? You feel like you did something wrong. You must have accidentally pushed him away. Or maybe you didn’t do something that you were supposed to do. You didn’t say the right thing,...

5 Steps to Changing His Mind

Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...