What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You

If another woman does something nice for you, how do you respond? You thank her, of course… And then you probably start thinking of a way to repay her kindness! When someone does something nice for you, you do something nice for them. But what happens when a man does...

3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One

It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if there’s someone out there who’s better? What if they’re wasting time with the wrong man when Mr. Right is still...

Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)

Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved her boyfriend Brad. She really did. She just wanted them to be happy. And they would be happy… If Brad would...

How to be a one-of-a-kind girlfriend

Every so often, a study comes out that makes me want to cheer. I can talk about the importance of being yourself as much as I like. But unless there’s research to back it, it’s just my opinion. And that opinion isn’t shared by old-school dating advice, which tells...

My 3 Best Success Tips about Money, Energy, and Meaningful Work

Relationships are the biggest source of meaning for most people. But is it okay if you want more? As a dating and relationship coach, you’d be surprised how often I get into conversations with my clients about work life. Why? Because it’s hard to be energized and full...