My Smoldering Hot Fantasy

Okay, I admit I’ve done some weird things in my life, but most of them were in pursuit of knowledge as a dating coach. I remember when a friend of mine dared me to dial a phone number, 1-800 FAT GIRLS (328-4457). This was ten years ago, so I have no idea what...

How Friends Can Help Or Harm Your Dating Life

Imagine a private conversation between the man you are dating and his closest friend. It’s a conversation never meant to reach your ears. Your boyfriend is discussing both the good and the bad of his experience with you so far. “Don’t get me wrong, I...

Communication Problems With Guys

Now let me ask you, do you believe yourself to be a good communicator? Most women are good at communication, certainly when compared to their male counterparts. Yet as a dating coach, one of the most common issues I discuss with women is the frustration of...

Leverage vs. Brute Force in Dating

Modern society owes all of its success to the power of leverage. Regardless of your ethnic background, all of our ancestors started out hunting, fishing, or farming for their own little family or tribe. At some point, cultures became sophisticated enough with trade...