“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.

What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...

How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues

I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: “I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far.  Should I tell him about it on the first...

How To Give Your Guy Feedback Without Getting Into Arguments

What does the term “feedback” mean to you? If you’re like most people, you think of it as a tool for repair. You give your boyfriend feedback to fix something. Feedback is generally used as a method of telling people what they have done wrong and...

Be Ready for This Question BEFORE He Asks You

Hey, it’s James with a tip for the early phase of a dating relationship. “So, what do you do for fun?” It’s a question that usually comes a little while after, “What do you do for a living?” and, “Where are you from?”...

Communication Problems With Guys

Now let me ask you, do you believe yourself to be a good communicator? Most women are good at communication, certainly when compared to their male counterparts. Yet as a dating coach, one of the most common issues I discuss with women is the frustration of...