Ask Him This…

Have you ever wondered why he likes you? What is it about you that he enjoys most? It’s an important question to ask. Unfortunately, a lot of people simply don’t ask. They assume they know why their partner is into them. That’s a big mistake, and here’s why. Like the...

Silent Men

Taking joy in living is a woman’s best cosmetic. Rosalind Russell I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Joy is attractive. Foster joy in your life any chance you get. My personal belief is that joy emanates from a deep sense of meaning and purpose...

“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.

What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...

How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues

I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: “I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far.  Should I tell him about it on the first...

How To Give Your Guy Feedback Without Getting Into Arguments

What does the term “feedback” mean to you? If you’re like most people, you think of it as a tool for repair. You give your boyfriend feedback to fix something. Feedback is generally used as a method of telling people what they have done wrong and...