Deeper Intimacy in Five Minutes

Remember the last time you were talking to someone and felt like they weren’t listening at all? It happens to me more often than I like. Sometimes I’ll say something totally outlandish just to see if they react. It’s surprising how often they just nod. The sad reality...

Ask Him This…

Have you ever wondered why he likes you? What is it about you that he enjoys most? It’s an important question to ask. Unfortunately, a lot of people simply don’t ask. They assume they know why their partner is into them. That’s a big mistake, and here’s why. Like the...

Silent Men

Taking joy in living is a woman’s best cosmetic. Rosalind Russell I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Joy is attractive. Foster joy in your life any chance you get. My personal belief is that joy emanates from a deep sense of meaning and purpose...

“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.

What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...

How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues

I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: “I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far.  Should I tell him about it on the first...