Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)

Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved her boyfriend Brad. She really did. She just wanted them to be happy. And they would be happy… If Brad would...

You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do

You can tell what he’s thinking, even when he doesn’t say a word. You can finish each other’s sentences. You’re in tune with him like no one else. That is sometimes what true love feels like… Knowing each other so well that words aren’t necessary. But if this is true,...

Use Moments of Awkward Silence for a Surprising Advantage with Men

What feels like an awkward silence to you might not feel that way to a guy. Let me show you why. Let’s look at a sample conversation where two people are trying to make a connection. MAN: I don’t think I’ve ever seen a neon pink-orange drink before. WOMAN: I know,...

The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up

Have you ever wondered why men are so much more reluctant to share their feelings than women? The technical term for when a guy has a hard time talking about how he feels is “Normative Male Alexithymia.” That’s a ridiculously complicated way of saying that many men...

5 Mysteries of the Male Brain

Male and female brains are different. Sometimes very different. It all comes back to what happens in the womb. Before we’re even born, our brains begin to develop. During this time, the male brain is powerfully influenced by the presence of testosterone....