The Most Important Conversation Technique You’ll Ever Learn

“I can’t believe you did that.” Brenda sat, stunned. “I’m so mad at you!” “Why? Why do you have to control everything I do?” David replied. “I have a right to do things without checking in with you first.” “Then you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship, Buster,...

One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

Your brain is programmed to have a very specific reaction to fear. That reaction can save your life. But it can also wreck your relationships. Let’s take a quick trip back in time. Imagine you lived thousands of years ago, long before the world was civilized. Life was...

Stop Old Arguments from Wrecking Your Relationship Rhythm

Try this quick experiment. I’ll explain why in a bit. Think about the last time your boyfriend did something really irritating. For just a moment, 30 seconds tops, remember every detail you can. Got a specific annoyance in mind? Good. Okay, the next part is the...