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When You Feel Conflicted about Him
Do you ever feel you’re of two minds about a guy? Or three minds? Or four minds? Or five? 😉 Maybe you love him, but you don’t always like him. Some days, you...
He’s Hung Up on His Ex
Nina thought it was going great. They had long, intense conversations. They were great at making each other laugh. And the chemistry? Suffice to say, she...
He Said Something Hurtful – What Do You Do?
You’re hanging out with your guy. You’re relaxing together, chatting about nothing in particular. He’s telling a story, and you’re half-paying attention… When...
Beyond “What’s Next”: Unlocking Joy in Your Current Relationship Stage”
You know what will make you happy. You’ll be happy when he finally commits. You’ll be happy when he gives up that habit that drives you crazy. You’ll be happy...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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His Texts Are So Confusing!
You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey” with a string of friendly emojis. What’s that supposed to mean? You pick up your phone and see a text from a...
Guys Want You to Tease Them
When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that our date will be impressed by us. We all hope we’ll get to know our date better. We all hope that our date...
Make Better Decisions in Love
Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that it’s up to you if you want anything to happen. There’s a 5% chance that he’s the love of your life. There’s a...
Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?
Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why she’d come to see me. She froze. I could see her confidence drain away. She took a deep breath and confessed, “I...
Why Guys Break Up Instead of Working on the Relationship
This is a story you might have heard before. A man meets a woman… And he falls hard. He’s never met anyone like her before. They have so much fun together. She makes him laugh. They talk about things he usually doesn’t talk about. He thinks about her all the time. He...
He Won’t Talk About Marriage
“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy had been together for eight years. They had two kids together. Marissa was in her forties, and she felt that...
The Secret Need That Drives Men
Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior and reward his good behavior.” It’s a common belief, but such a missed opportunity for connection. Treating a...
3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex
“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has pictures of her. Couple pictures, right there in his bedside drawer! And she’s still in his contacts list. I knew he...
3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner
He’s so much fun to date, but what will he be like in 20 years? If you’re dating with the goal of finding your future husband, you can’t just find a man you enjoy. You’ve got to figure out whether you’ll be able to make a good life together, which requires balancing...
Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy
For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her life never quite fit that description. Every time I spoke to her, she’d be gushing about someone new. This guy...
A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love
Cecilia was describing her new boyfriend to me. “It’s fun, it’s exciting, but when I’ve needed him, he isn’t there. It feels like I can’t share everything that’s going on in my life with him, because he tunes out. I think he finds it annoying when I talk too much.”...
Should I Go No Contact?
I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact with your ex for about 30 days after a breakup. You don’t text, you don’t comment on his posts, you don’t ask...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.