This Is How “Internal Chemistry” Makes You More Attractive

There’s a powerful saying that goes like this…

“You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess.”
This saying means two things.

1. 1. You should strive to put your best foot forward, but you must never forget to cultivate true depth in the qualities that make you valuable as a friend or partner.
   2. If you develop the right qualities, the right people will be attracted to you.

It’s the second part that poses a problem. It takes a lot of faith to believe that.

It takes faith to believe other people will ever discover the qualities you have worked your entire life to embody.

But now consider the wisdom captured in this next saying:

“Let your faith be bigger than your fear.”

This is internal chemistry. I’m talking about mixing two powerful ideas…ideas that change you when you dwell on them.

Here are the complementary ideas stated in a slightly different way. Notice how powerful they are when combined together.

1. Focus on becoming who you want to be.
2. Focus on what you want, not what you fear.

Have you ever had a friend like this? Someone who’s not afraid to go after what they want in life? Someone who’s not afraid to embrace the personal qualities they value most?

Have you ever known a man who is energized by these two qualities? A guy who is truly good (to the core) and he lives courageously toward the good things he believes in?

It’s hard to resist such a person. Powerful, healthy energy flows from a strong foundation like that.

This is what I want for you.

Embrace whatever you can from these concepts, and I will be happy.

I teach tips, tricks, and techniques…but none of them work all that well without the strong foundation I am describing here.

Who are you really? I mean, who are you at your best? What qualities do you value so highly, you feel happier each time you remember to embrace them? Live in that direction.

James Bauer