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The Trust Deficit: Why Modern Dating Feels Riskier Than Ever

The Trust Deficit: Why Modern Dating Feels Riskier Than Ever

It’s already so hard to meet someone new. There are so many obstacles to overcome: making that first contact, figuring out what to say, building attraction, daring to suggest seeing each other again... It’s not fair that I’m giving you one more thing to worry about....

The Promise Problem

The Promise Problem

Keira fell in love with him over coffee. They talked about what they wanted for the future. She loved the way he painted a picture of the life they’d have together once he graduated. They’d spend part of each year in a different country. They’d be a power couple,...

Men’s Deepest Darkest Dating Fears

Men’s Deepest Darkest Dating Fears

Men are scared. And they think the only people who can understand are other men. If women knew how they really felt about dating, they’d never get another date. A woman being pursued doesn’t want to know that her charming love interest is secretly filled with doubts,...

Why You’re Exactly What He Needs

Why You’re Exactly What He Needs

When you’re in your twenties, you assume you’ll meet the right person and grow old together. You don’t imagine yourself trying to fill out a dating profile in your sixties… But that’s where Candice found herself. After losing her husband, the golden years she’d...

Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral

Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral

If you turned the average relationship into a movie, this might be the plot... The Crush (Act 1) Two people meet. They’re excited to spend time together. They notice every delightful thing about each other. They’re at the beginning of a great adventure. They want to...

Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?

Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?

“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different person.” My heart went out to Melanie. When I’d seen her last week, she was brimming over with enthusiasm about...

Set Goals in Love

Set Goals in Love

Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them. But it wasn’t working in her personal life. All she wanted, she told me, was to find her future husband. It...

5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)

5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)

Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're not). But everything is not what it seems... Deep down, many men are insecure and uncertain. They’ve been told...

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that... “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:...

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

This could be the beginning of something wonderful. You really care about him. You want to be part of his life. But a few things he’s said bother you. He’s got some complicated issues in his life... And he doesn’t want you to become involved. You have a few...

When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart

When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart

Nearly two-thirds of couples spend most of the night apart. Does that horrify you? Or can you empathize completely? It’s long been believed that sleeping apart is a sign of trouble. But many couples credit a better night’s sleep to separate beds.[1] Is better sleep...

He Blocked Me – What Now?

He Blocked Me – What Now?

Things weren’t going great to begin with. Maybe you said something he disagreed with. Maybe you had a fight. Maybe he hadn’t been in contact and you just wanted to hear from him. You went to message him… And discovered you couldn’t. He’d blocked you. What do you do...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

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