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10 Reasons Men Aren’t Asking You Out
“Do guys just not ask women out anymore?” my client Annie asked me. She’d gotten married in her early twenties, and she didn’t remember dating being this...
Decoding Mixed Messages
Tammy thought she’d never find love again. Since her husband passed, she’d found peace in a life filled with friends and hobbies. Then she joined a hiking...
What Guys Long for in a Relationship (But Rarely Get)
For many men, there was a moment when they knew their girlfriend was the one. She had one specific trait that made her different from every other woman they’d...
Friends to Lovers: Why You Should Fall for Your Best Friend
There are two pathways to love. One is the “attractive stranger” pathway. You see someone who catches your eye, you start talking, and sparks fly. The second...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Surprising Reason He Blows Hot & Cold
Raise of hands—how many of you have never experienced a man blowing hot and cold? Anyone? It’s a near-universal experience for women seeking a real relationship. You think everything is going so well, then he pulls away unexpectedly. It’s hurtful. You don’t even know...
“Slow Down, Romeo!” When He’s Moving Too Fast
Imagine this… You meet a man who tells you he’s never met anyone like you before. Where have you been all his life? You’re incredible. He wants to see you again immediately. You do a little happy dance as soon as you get home. You can’t stop smiling. This is so...
Can This Casual Relationship Become Serious?
Lauren had a problem. She had a casual thing going with a guy she really liked. It was all going so well. She’d never been happier. Except… She was developing “feelings.” I had to smile as she put air quotes around the word, like it was a horrible thing to confess. “I...
The Trust Deficit: Why Modern Dating Feels Riskier Than Ever
It’s already so hard to meet someone new. There are so many obstacles to overcome: making that first contact, figuring out what to say, building attraction, daring to suggest seeing each other again... It’s not fair that I’m giving you one more thing to worry about....
The Promise Problem
Keira fell in love with him over coffee. They talked about what they wanted for the future. She loved the way he painted a picture of the life they’d have together once he graduated. They’d spend part of each year in a different country. They’d be a power couple,...
Men’s Deepest Darkest Dating Fears
Men are scared. And they think the only people who can understand are other men. If women knew how they really felt about dating, they’d never get another date. A woman being pursued doesn’t want to know that her charming love interest is secretly filled with doubts,...
Why You’re Exactly What He Needs
When you’re in your twenties, you assume you’ll meet the right person and grow old together. You don’t imagine yourself trying to fill out a dating profile in your sixties… But that’s where Candice found herself. After losing her husband, the golden years she’d...
Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral
If you turned the average relationship into a movie, this might be the plot... The Crush (Act 1) Two people meet. They’re excited to spend time together. They notice every delightful thing about each other. They’re at the beginning of a great adventure. They want to...
Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?
“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different person.” My heart went out to Melanie. When I’d seen her last week, she was brimming over with enthusiasm about...
Set Goals in Love
Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them. But it wasn’t working in her personal life. All she wanted, she told me, was to find her future husband. It...
5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)
Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're not). But everything is not what it seems... Deep down, many men are insecure and uncertain. They’ve been told...
25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy
From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that... “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!