The Upside of Relationship Mistakes

Which is better? To avoid mistakes altogether, or to watch for your mistakes, expecting them on a daily basis? The answer may surprise you. Back in the 90’s, IBM built a computer called Deep Blue. It played chess. In 1997, it actually beat Garry Kasparov, a...

Healthy Relationship Boundaries

Healthy boundaries aren’t just good for your relationship. They’re essential. In fact, it’s nearly impossible to have a mature, healthy relationship without boundaries. The problem is that most of us think of walls when we think of boundaries, and...

Disappearing Reappearing Love

Today we’re talking about why the feeling of love seems to suddenly disappear during arguments between lovers. But I need to start with a quick story. A king gave his wise men a challenge. “Create a ring that will make me happy when I am sad.” The wise men succeeded....

When Less Is More

Minimalism is a growing trend in the world of fashion. It refers to the idea of whittling your wardrobe down to just a few pieces that can easily be mixed and matched. It’s all about putting the essentials front and center and removing the fluff. Really,...

Three Nonromantic Tendencies to Encourage

No, the title isn’t a typo. It may seem counter intuitive, but some of the non-romantic things guys do signal that your relationship is actually moving forward. When he does one of the following three things, don’t discourage him. What he does: Act...