Your Crush: “She’s Just So Refreshing.”

Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, “He just...

Avoid this Holiday Romance Mistake

The holidays can be a wonderful time for relationships. Or they can wreak havoc on your dating life. It all depends on whether or not you manage to avoid one critical mistake. A lot of people roll into the holiday season thinking the festivities will give them unique...

Do Men Fear Commitment, Or Is It Something Else?

The idea that men are afraid of commitment is universally accepted. Most of us think of it as a given, assuming men and commitment just don’t mix. But this common perception is fundamentally flawed. Men aren’t really afraid of commitment, and never have...

The Insignificant Compliment that Grabs His Attention

Sometimes one small thing can make a big difference, especially in relationships. The key is knowing what small things to focus on. While there are plenty of differences between men and women, there are some ways in which we’re exactly the same. I’d like to share one...

“I’m Too Damaged” 2 Reasons to Believe Him

If a guy tells you he’s too damaged, too depressed, or too anything else, take him at his word. Do you remember that Cold Play song, “Fix You?” The chorus said, “Lights will guide you home, and ignite your bones, and I will try to fix...

The Shadow in Your Relationship

Janice wasn’t trying to snoop. She was just looking up movie times. Her phone was in the other room, so she grabbed Brad’s off the coffee table. But before she could fire up his browser and do a quick internet search, he got a text message from someone named Cheryl....