How to Use Smoke and Mirrors to Make Your Relationship Great

Which of the following two scenarios do you think would get better results? There’s a local coffee shop. The shop owner wants to start giving customers rewards cards. After a customer buys so many coffees, they get one free. But he has two versions of the card. One...

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

It happens in every relationship. You say something, and there’s an awkward silence. Tension descends. Something’s wrong. You don’t know what. He looks away. His mouth is tight. Fear hits you in the gut. You’re losing him! You can’t let that happen. What you do next...

The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up

Have you ever wondered why men are so much more reluctant to share their feelings than women? The technical term for when a guy has a hard time talking about how he feels is “Normative Male Alexithymia.” That’s a ridiculously complicated way of saying that many men...

The Surprising Secret to Long-Term Relationship Bliss

What do you hope for in a dating relationship? It’s a simple question that can lead to some complex answers. Fun dates and first kisses are nice, but you probably have your sights set on something long-term. If you really let your mind go, you could end up thinking...

Taking Relationship Risks Makes You Smarter?

Which kind of person are you? The kind to charge in when something scares you? Or the kind to back away from risky situations? I’m going to go out on a limb and guess. You’re BOTH. Most of us are. There are times when we embrace risk, and times when we run from it. My...