When His Friendships With Other Women Go Too Far

Rena didn’t know what to do. Her friends wanted her to break it off with him. He’s cheating on you, they said. But she didn’t know that for sure. And their relationship was still really good. She relied on him. She knew going in that he was a bit of a ladies man....

When He Won’t Talk

What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful woman in her late 50s. She’d been married to her husband for decades. He’d been loving and kind when they first...

From Fizzling to Sizzling

Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own business, so they couldn’t see each other as often as they’d like. Recently she’d started to wonder if he was...

5 Ways to Make His Day

You wish you could do something special for him. He works so hard, and you appreciate him so much. You want to put a smile on his face, but you don’t always know how. For men, small, thoughtful gestures can mean the world. Here are five ways to make his day and remind...

When You Think He’s Cheating

Bonnie had been with her guy ever since college. But they’d been long-distance ever since he moved to get his master’s degree. It was only two years. She knew they could handle it. Lately, though, she’d become suspicious. She couldn’t put a finger on it, but something...

He’s Not Sure If He Can Commit

It’s heartbreaking to fall in love with a guy who isn’t sure. He’s not sure he’s in the right place for a relationship. He’s not sure he can commit again. He’s been burned in the past. He’s not sure he can be the man you need him to...