This tip can help you discover shared interests with your man.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need new ______ to get into. Any recommendations?” Examples: New music. New books. A new show.   It’s nice because it’s unassuming. He can answer quickly, but it could also lead to a long conversation about shared or...

Here’s a fun way to ask about his day.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Challenge time: Tell me how your day was, but you can ONLY answer with an emoji or meme.” A fun twist on checking in about his day! It can help your guy open up if he sometimes has trouble finding the right...

Looking for a light-hearted way to set up a date?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week This one is designed as a light-hearted set-up, so you have to feel comfortable enough with the man to send it: “Coffee or tea?” Then, when he responds with his answer, text: “Okay, I guess we’re going to _________ tonight....

Here’s a great tip to learn more about him and his past.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need something to look forward to, so I’m contemplating my next vacation — whenever that may be. What’s the best trip you’ve ever taken?” What’s interesting about this text is that you’re asking for advice AND...

Show him you trust and value him with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What do you think I should do about _______?” Asking for his opinion shows you’re interested in what he thinks. Asking his advice shows you trust him. Using this phrase will cause him to feel valued and more a part of your...