Compliment him in this unexpected way…

“Hey! No need to respond to this. Just wanted to say I think you’re making me a better person and I appreciate it.” Talk about making a man feel good – how could he not respond to that compliment? At minimum you’ll get a thank you. But more likely it will spur a...

Instead of commenting on his social media do this…

If you follow his social media, send a text instead of commenting once in a while: “Saw that you’re having a bad day. Anything I can do to make it better?” “Sounds like today was successful! I’d love to hear more about it.” The point is to use a more private line of...

Want to intrigue him? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just finished something you’ll love…” The pull here is the intrigue. He’ll be really curious what you’re talking about. And the possibilities are vast. New book? Movie? Show? Recipe? Class? Choose something you really...

This flirty tip invites him to open up.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Where would you go for ‘just dessert’?” You’re asking for advice, learning more about him, and inviting him to help you be a bit “naughty,” albeit with...

Stay connected with your man and have fun with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just had a fun idea for the next time we’re feeling bored: Do you want to write a text story together?” If he bites, explain that one person starts and you trade off writing the next part. It can be short or long. Silly...