4 Easy Ways to Enhance Conversation with Your Date

Do you have a strategy for making a real connection with a guy when you go out? Would you like one? How about four? Because boy, oh boy does bad conversation get awkward when you’re on a date. You know the kind I mean. You sit down at the table, the waiter takes your...

Who’s Smarter in Love: Your Head, Your Heart, or Your Gut?

When it comes to relationships, no one can make decisions for you. You’re the only one who knows what’s in your heart. But there’s a problem with listening to your heart. Your head doesn’t always agree. In fact, they often tell you two separate things. “Go ahead, text...

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Staying in Bad Relationships

We’ve heard it a thousand times: Love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll settle for a man who doesn’t value you. That’s obvious, right? But looking back on your relationship history, you may be able to pick out quite a few exes who didn’t value you. Even a...

Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him

Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman. Your two hours together fly by. He asks for your number and promises to call. Bachelor #2 is inconsistent. He...

One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

Your brain is programmed to have a very specific reaction to fear. That reaction can save your life. But it can also wreck your relationships. Let’s take a quick trip back in time. Imagine you lived thousands of years ago, long before the world was civilized. Life was...

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

How much do you trust your intuition? In our culture, we talk a lot about women’s intuition. A number of my clients have even told me that influential women in their lives encouraged them to always trust their intuition. Here’s the picture we tend to...