Buried Treasure

In his book, “Hardwiring Happiness” author Rick Hanson explains a secret about happiness. He calls it “taking in the good,” and here’s what it means. There are little jewels in life, opportunities to appreciate something good. Most of the...

Destructive Abundance

Having an abundance mindset is a wonderful thing. It literally makes life more fun. It supports actions and choices that move you forward in life. But it has an evil twin. “Destructive abundance” is what happens when you start to achieve a lot of success...

Prizing Imperfections

“Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” ~ George Burns This quote makes you laugh because it catches you off guard. You find yourself agreeing wholeheartedly during the first part, only to find yourself agreeing...

Become Charismatic Without Even Trying

Here’s a fun experiment. Treat everyone you meet today as if you secretly know they are going to turn out to be a close friend you can love and trust. Guess what happens when you do this? A deeply rooted instinct gets triggered inside you. It’s an instinct...

Don’t repeat past mistakes…unless

It’s amazing how often people repeat the same patterns in relationships, expecting to get different results while using the exact same strategies that led to emotional pain in the past. You can probably guess how I try to intervene when one of my clients seems...

Make Him Feel Drawn to You with One Easy Charisma Trick

I like small changes that get big results. I have a small change to suggest today. You’ve probably done it before. I’m just suggesting you do it again (and perhaps more often). “Attracting Through Irresistible Qualities”… That’s the...