The Power of Intrigue

Want to intrigue a man to capture his interest? Then be a little more “playful” when talking to him. Why is it that a playful response to a question, one that teases a little bit and delays the answer, yields greater fascination? Rather than offer the answer out...

Irresistible Confidence

Confidence feels good. Men will tell you it’s one of the most attractive qualities a woman can possess. Confidence is King. This is a bold statement, yet it begs the question: Confident about what? Herein lies the problem. People give useless advice...

The Upside of Relationship Mistakes

Which is better? To avoid mistakes altogether, or to watch for your mistakes, expecting them on a daily basis? The answer may surprise you. Back in the 90’s, IBM built a computer called Deep Blue. It played chess. In 1997, it actually beat Garry Kasparov, a...

Disappearing Reappearing Love

Today we’re talking about why the feeling of love seems to suddenly disappear during arguments between lovers. But I need to start with a quick story. A king gave his wise men a challenge. “Create a ring that will make me happy when I am sad.” The wise men succeeded....

Not Your Reality

Singer Tyrese Gibson recently went on a rant about how the media portrays relationships. Especially so-called reality TV shows. “You find yourself arguing and having issues at your house and in your marriage and in your family that are directly influenced from...

What does “Aging Gracefully” mean?

Melissa Stetten is in her late twenties. She’s worried about getting old and “hitting her expiration date” as a model. She puts herself through all kinds of facial treatments to maintain her youthful appearance. Ironically, she hasn’t even made...