Anger should be released (but only in certain ways)

Is it better to channel your anger into productive communication, or just go to your bedroom and scream into a pillow before slugging it a few times? For a couple of decades psychologists thought you needed to “release your anger,” by punching pillows, giving a primal...

Don’t Hold Back

Mae West said, “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” Are you doing it right? Are you spending your time, effort and energy on the things that are really worthwhile? Or are you holding back? Don’t hold back. Spend all your life pursuing (all...

How to Make a Man Want You Just By Looking At Him?

Imagine this. A man is chatting with several other people at a social gathering. He glances over the shoulder of the guy talking when he notices a woman making eye contact with him from across the room. He’s no longer listening to the guy talking about...

“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”

What is the difference between “emotional attraction” and “physical attraction?” While there are varying opinions on this matter, I’ll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical...

Three Ways Men Think Differently about a First Date

Of the many ways men and women think differently, here’s one of my favorites. Women agonize over finding an outfit that is stylish and trendy for a first date. But men are often a little behind in recognizing women’s trends. That means your outfit may...