From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this.

For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that…

“I love you.”

As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:

“I think you’re the most incredible woman alive.”

“I want to be with you forever.”

“I never want to lose you.”

“You make my life worth living.”

You’ll never forget this moment.

You’ll always remember where you were, what you were wearing, what he was wearing, how his voice trembled as he said those words.

And maybe, just maybe, someday you’ll tell this story to others (maybe even your children)…

About the day your future husband confessed his love to you.

Is That It?

We tend to think that hearing, “I love you,” means the hard part is over.

You’ve made it. You won his heart.

Now that he’s sworn his undying love, you can rest, relax, and enjoy life together.

Except for one tiny little complication…

Things aren’t that different now from how they used to be.

You thought he’d act differently. A man in love behaves a certain way. Now that his feelings are out in the open, surely he’d show love more often.

You’re not complaining, of course. You’re so incredibly happy that he told you how he felt.

It’s just that…

It’s not quite what you expected.

“I Love You” Is Only The Beginning

When a man says, “I love you,” he’s leaving out something incredibly important:

What love means to him.

His view of love may be completely different from your view of love.

His “I love you” may not be your “I love you.”

That’s why saying those 3 little words to each other should be only the beginning of a lifetime of conversations about love.

He’s shown you that he isn’t afraid of saying the “L-word.”

Is he open to talking about love in greater depth?

These 25 questions, arranged from easy to hard, will help you see into his mind and heart to discover what loving you means to him.

Set up a date, settle in, and be prepared for surprises…

25 Love Questions to Ask Him

1. What’s the best love song of all time?
2. What’s the best love advice you’ve ever received?
3. What’s your favorite romantic scene from a movie or television show?
4. Who is the ideal couple, real or fictional?
5. When was the first time you fell in love?
6. Do you think you know more about love now than you did back then?
7. Which childhood memory do you most associate with love?
8. Does love have a specific taste or smell or sound to you?
9. Do you believe in love at first sight?
10. What’s your favorite way to show love?
11. Do you believe in Valentine’s Day?
12. What’s your favorite thing that anyone has ever done for you to show their love?
13. What did your parents’ relationship teach you about love?
14. Do you think unconditional love is possible?
15. Do you think soulmates are real?
16. How do you think love changes a relationship?
17. Have you ever worried you’re not lovable?
18. Have you ever had your heart broken?
19. Do you ever worry about our relationship ending badly?
20. When a relationship ends, how do you get the courage to try again?
21. Do you think you have any control over who you love?
22. Do you think your heart has gotten stronger over time?
23. Do you think it’s possible to stay in love with the same person for a lifetime?
24. When you see an elderly couple walking hand in hand, what’s the first thought that comes to your mind?
25. If a fortune cookie predicted that you would “live happily ever after,” what do you think that means?