3 Ways to Stop Settling

“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone better?” I’ve heard so many women ask some version of Amanda’s question. (I’ve heard men ask this question, too.) How...

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any man would see in her. She came to me for help recovering from heartbreak after she’d met a man online. She...

Text with Confidence

You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny? Is he saying it’s over? As your thumbs hover over the keypad, your mind remains stubbornly blank. You have to...

His Texts Are So Confusing!

You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey” with a string of friendly emojis. What’s that supposed to mean? You pick up your phone and see a text from a...

Guys Want You to Tease Them

When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that our date will be impressed by us. We all hope we’ll get to know our date better. We all hope that our date...

Make Better Decisions in Love

Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that it’s up to you if you want anything to happen. There’s a 5% chance that he’s the love of your life. There’s a...