Hey I listened to your book…His Secret Obsession!

It’s simply amazing! I had been texting with this one guy for like 5 months…he always said that he wanted to meet up but when I’d invite him he’d always have excuses!
I sent him the twelve word txt message the other day…and guess what! He texted back faster then I’d ever seen! Like he was ready to see the message the minute it hit his phone!(that was after 3 to 4 days of no contact.)

And after that things changed drastically!

Now he’s the one that’s always talking about meeting up n making things happen!
He told me the other night that I was different…and that with me he let his guards down n that I was the only girl that actually made him wanna take the risk and fall in love again!

Bless you James! You’re doing a wonderful work! Keep it up!

Martha K.

James, you never fail me. Thank you for having given my marriage hope, when all seemed lost. Your insights were the beginning of a different mindset for me. Where would we be without you? Divorced, or separated for sure. You changed my mind, you changed my marriage. I am forever grateful! You helped me to realize what a wonderful husband I have. I can never repay you for this extremely valuable information. So I want to say “THANK YOU JAMES, you are the BEST RELATIONSHIP COACH OUT THERE!”

Anna D.

Hi James. I’ve followed you for 3+ years to become the best me I can be so that I could understand myself and the man I’ve wanted to attract into my life. It took 3 years, and I found the One. We married last year. Thank you for your positive grounded advice and understanding of a woman’s perspective. I had a lot to learn about myself.

Even if my idea is not one you can use, I want to thank you directly for what you’ve done for me. I’m over 50 and several of my women friends are in the same boat so I send them your articles when I think it may help them.

Many women take care of themselves with beauty products, treatments, yoga, and exercise but are they really taking care of their hormones? Men and women change as they age and we should take care of our hormones as well. There are reputable doctors specializing in this area now along with internationally known doctors, changing women’s lives in a natural way to make us feel and look youthful much longer. I took advantage of this ten years ago as my sister did and we feel great.

Your advice I believe works for many walks of life, eg, young people just starting out and every ten years after that, whether you’re looking for a relationship, engaged, widowed, or divorced.

James, keep up the good work. Believing in making choices for yourself first then selflessly for our partners makes for a very enjoyable real life you can have together. I know life throws difficulties in our paths and my plan is to keep reading your advice for ways I can remind myself how to keep strong, loving, and positive.

Keep helping and advising us. It works!

Nancy G.