Is Something Bothering you?

He’s great. He’s better than 90% of the guys out there. You can think of a lot of things you like about him. He’s kind. He’s thoughtful. He’s funny. But… He’s not perfect. There’s this thing about him that annoys you. Maybe it’s that gross sound he makes when eating…...

Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?

You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...

How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character

Do you know how to spot a guy’s underlying character? If you don’t, it’s all too easy to end up with a guy who’s not worth your time. Here’s what I mean. Jenn and Lisa are best friends. Both recently started dating someone new. Like most friends, they compare notes....

How to Turn a Guy Down Without Feeling Guilty

Which is worse? Going out on a lame date . . . or saying no to a guy you’re not into? Most of my readers are mature, intelligent and kind. I’m sure you don’t take pleasure in making guys feel horrible just for asking you out. What do you say when you don’t want to say...

7 Ways to Make Online Dating as Awesome as it Should Be

Online dating is super easy. It’s not even hard to find good guys. But finding a good guy who’s right for YOU—now, that can be a challenge. It’s kind of like shopping online. Have you ever bought something online only to send it right back? Maybe it was a summer...