The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior and reward his good behavior.” It’s a common belief, but such a missed opportunity for connection. Treating a...

He Only Wants Something Casual

This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find him. And here he shows up in your life, bringing joy and laughter and fun and desire… Making you feel wanted…...

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a desert. They feel like they’re doing the work. They’ve put up online dating profiles. They invest good money in...