Tough Relationship Decision? Use These 4 Steps to Resolve It

Sometimes even the smallest decisions can fill us with doubt. When it’s a big relationship decision we feel anxious, insecure, and sometimes miserable. This article is designed to reduce that emotional strain. I will propose four simple steps to reduce the...

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful? As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners.  Several people have asked me if they...

Stop Being So Available And He’ll Want You Even More

Stop Being So Available And He’ll Want You Even More A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know...

Quantity Does Matter In Early Dating

Quantity Does Matter In Early Dating I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what’s called “the shotgun approach.” Basically, it means they abandon the...

Invisible Progress in Relationships

You would be surprised how often I have to encourage my clients to put relationships first in their lives.  You would think a person willing to spend money on a relationship consultant would already be maximizing their own personal effort in that area of their lives. ...

Love like a Loser

“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.” ~G.K. Chesterton If you don’t know someone personally who experienced this, I’m sure you’ve heard tales of people who were given a medical prognosis suggesting they have only three...