Now You See Me, Now You Don’t.

A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know you’re still there. This is because you come and go. Now you see...

The Shotgun Approach

I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what’s called “the shotgun approach.” Basically, it means they abandon the detailed research of any one medical...

Invisible Progress in Relationships

You would be surprised how often I have to encourage my clients to put relationships first in their lives.  You would think a person willing to spend money on a relationship consultant would already be maximizing their own personal effort in that area of their...

Love like a Loser

“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.” ~G.K. Chesterton If you don’t know someone personally who experienced this, I’m sure you’ve heard tales of people who were given a medical prognosis suggesting they have only three...

Penetrating Laughter

“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited...