Can you laugh at yourself? Try this.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Don’t think too hard… First impressions of each other – go! Prove that you’re capable of laughing at yourself for mistaken assumptions. Open the door to some warm...

Here’s a playful challenge.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Challenge: Sum up your evening in emojis. 🙂 A chance to play. If he’s creative, he’ll enjoy this like a game, associating you with the fun in his...

Does music make your guy feel nostalgic? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What’s your dream lineup of “blast from the past” bands?” This gives you both a chance to share in some nostalgia. It could also segue into plans to share a favorites playlist in...

Bring out his playful side with some fun conversation.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Really important question: would you rather have [X-ray vision] or [wings]?” Though it may feel a bit juvenile, a light-hearted game of imagination and fantasy is an easy, low-pressure way to get a guy to relax with you. It...

Give him a glimpse into your interests with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I can’t stop reading [book]. What have you been reading lately?” He’ll appreciate your willingness to have an intelligent conversation, and he’ll get a window into your...