Like his taste in clothes? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Try on a few different outfits in a dressing room. Send him pictures. “Which ___?” Top, dress, pants, scarf…. Not only are you asking his opinion, there’s a real assumption of intimacy here in letting him help you choose...

Spark feelings of intimacy in your relationship with this tip

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Send him a picture of your room. “I want to rearrange. Where is the perfect spot for this ____?” Self-disclosure leads to feelings of intimacy in relationships. The trick here is that it doesn’t always have to be in the form...

Ask for his opinion…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I’ve been craving ice cream. What’s your vote for the best in town?” People love being asked for their opinions. It also opens up an opportunity for a possible meet-up – spontaneous or planned ice cream,...

Ignite his sense of adventure!

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I just downloaded one of those apps for cheap flight alerts. Where would you go first?”This ignites his sense of adventure and lets him know that you’re up for adventure...

The Key to Asking for Help

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week We all need to ask for a favor every now and then. Turns out, there are “dos and don’ts” to asking for help. Whether you need a professional recommendation or a ride to the optometrist, you should ask your favor in a...

Avoid the Text Spiral

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week Do you read too much into texts? Have you agonized over a message that shows it as “Read” but with no reply? This overanalysis might be hurting your chances at real connection. When you start dating, talk about each other’s...