Stuck on how to open a conversation, try this.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Do you believe _______?” There’s an implied compliment in asking for someone else’s opinion. This phrase makes him feel important while opening conversations about anything you like.   Examples: “Do you believe Sarah...

How to compliment your guy and make him feel like a hero.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I think your superpower might be ______.” Guys don’t appreciate flowery compliments much, but this phrase will make him feel like a million bucks. Fill in the blank with something silly but relevant to a recent interaction....

Want him to light up at the thought of spending time with you?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What makes you feel alive or lose track of time?” Followed by, “Can you show me?” Show up before, during, or after the things that light him up, put him in a flow state, and make him live to the fullest, and a bit of the...

Here’s a playful way to ask for what you want.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “You have my permission to __________.” This phrase allows you to ask for what you want more directly while framing it in a way that is light and whimsical. Examples: “You have my permission to surprise me after work if...