Now You See Me, Now You Don’t.

A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know you’re still there. This is because you come and go. Now you see...

The Shotgun Approach

I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what’s called “the shotgun approach.” Basically, it means they abandon the detailed research of any one medical...

How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues

I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: “I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far.  Should I tell him about it on the first...

Penetrating Laughter

“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited...

Before You Text Your Boyfriend, Read This

Here are a few things I have learned about texting as a relationship coach. 1.You should not make decisions or write those decisions in a text message when you are upset. 2.You should be VERY slow to respond to text messages when you are angry. 3.Your own mood will...