The Absolute Worst Thing to Say after a Date

Let me start by asking if you know the answer to the following question. What is the number-one fear a woman has after a date that goes really well? Do you know? The most common fear is that he won’t call again. The woman is left waiting, wondering, and feeling...

The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”

There’s this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully...

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?

As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners.  Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...

Two Power Habits for Dating

Here are two essential “power habits” that work synergistically to put you in contact with more quality men and ensure you enjoy the dating process as it unfolds. Remember his name the first time you meet him (and every time after). Use the power of networking. I’m...