The Most Successful Female Dating Strategy

“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.” ~ Robert Louis Stevenson Perhaps the simplest dating method of all is one that focuses on yourself. Specifically, it’s a method that focuses on the actions you take...

The Absolute Worst Thing to Say after a Date

Let me start by asking if you know the answer to the following question. What is the number-one fear a woman has after a date that goes really well? Do you know? The most common fear is that he won’t call again. The woman is left waiting, wondering, and feeling...

The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”

There’s this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully...

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful? As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners.  Several people have asked me if they...