The Most Successful Female Dating Strategy

“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.” ~ Robert Louis Stevenson Perhaps the simplest dating method of all is one that focuses on yourself. Specifically, it’s a method that focuses on the actions you take...

The Absolute Worst Thing to Say after a Date

Let me start by asking if you know the answer to the following question. What is the number-one fear a woman has after a date that goes really well? Do you know? The most common fear is that he won’t call again. The woman is left waiting, wondering, and feeling...

The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”

There’s this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully...

Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?

As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners.  Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...