What It Means When He Says He Doesn’t Love You

It’s one of the worst things anyone can say: “I don’t love you anymore.” Those 5 words destroy you. The world you thought you lived in, the future you thought you had with this person, the connection you thought you shared… All gone. How could he say such a thing?...

Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”

“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....

Am I Too Picky with Guys?

It’s one of the questions I get asked a lot: “Am I too picky with guys?” Have you ever wondered that? Are you worried you’ll run out of options if you keep turning down guys who are interested? Do you wonder whether you’re turning away guys who could have made you...

How to Stop Being “Too Nice” to Men

Ellie knew what her problem was in dating: She was too nice. She kept exchanging messages even when she was no longer interested. She said yes every time a man asked her out, because she didn’t want to hurt his feelings. She had long conversations where she listened...

5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You

It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly. Sure, you have an emotional connection. But it’s not enough. Because he hasn’t said a word about what it all...