This tip can help you discover shared interests with your man.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need new ______ to get into. Any recommendations?” Examples: New music. New books. A new show.   It’s nice because it’s unassuming. He can answer quickly, but it could also lead to a long conversation about shared or...

Here’s a fun way to ask about his day.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Challenge time: Tell me how your day was, but you can ONLY answer with an emoji or meme.” A fun twist on checking in about his day! It can help your guy open up if he sometimes has trouble finding the right...

Looking for a light-hearted way to set up a date?

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week This one is designed as a light-hearted set-up, so you have to feel comfortable enough with the man to send it: “Coffee or tea?” Then, when he responds with his answer, text: “Okay, I guess we’re going to _________ tonight....

Here’s a great tip to learn more about him and his past.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I need something to look forward to, so I’m contemplating my next vacation — whenever that may be. What’s the best trip you’ve ever taken?” What’s interesting about this text is that you’re asking for advice AND...