No Second Date. Could This Be Why?

This guy seems okay. You’re not sure about him, but he’s nice enough. The conversation was good. If he asked you, you’d probably see him again. But after you go home from your date, you check your phone… And nothing. Tomorrow … still nothing. He doesn’t contact you...

3 Tips to Make Your Profile Pic Catch His Eye

You know your photo matters more than it should. Even on online dating platforms like eHarmony, which prioritize compatibility over looks, men spend more time looking at photos than they do reading your profile. OkCupid found that text contributes to less than 10% of...

Does music make your guy feel nostalgic? Try this…

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “What’s your dream lineup of “blast from the past” bands?” This gives you both a chance to share in some nostalgia. It could also segue into plans to share a favorites playlist in...

Bring out his playful side with some fun conversation.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “Really important question: would you rather have [X-ray vision] or [wings]?” Though it may feel a bit juvenile, a light-hearted game of imagination and fantasy is an easy, low-pressure way to get a guy to relax with you. It...

Give him a glimpse into your interests with this tip.

James Bauer’s Texting Tip of the Week “I can’t stop reading [book]. What have you been reading lately?” He’ll appreciate your willingness to have an intelligent conversation, and he’ll get a window into your...