You love him. You’d do anything for him. He knows that. So why is he telling you that he doesn’t want a relationship? It’s not the right time, he’s not in the right space, he can’t commit to anyone right now. Lots of excuses, but nothing that satisfies you. You know... “It’s not you. It’s me.” “I’m worried I’m going to hurt you.” “You deserve someone better than me.” “I can’t give you what you need.” If you’ve been on the receiving end of those excuses, you know just how frustrating they are. Doesn’t he get it? You WANT to be with... You’re panicking. If you don’t fix this, you’re going to lose him. He’s acting like a stranger. You’re still communicating, but you can feel the coldness. With every day that passes, you become more and more anxious. You’re no longer sleeping. You can barely keep your... When Alyssa came into my office, she wasn’t the same woman I’d seen the week before. Her blond hair was limp and unwashed. She wasn’t wearing makeup. Her shoulders were slumped. “So, how’d your date go last week?” I asked. I knew she’d been looking forward to it. “It... Zoey opened up her online dating app to see the message: “Send pics.” She was mystified. What ever happened to hello? She took a look at the man who was messaging her. He seemed decent. So she wrote back to him: “If you look at my profile, you’ll see my pics.” She was... 
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