5 Reasons He Makes You Feel Like An Emotional Wreck

“I don’t get it, James,” Kate said. “I’m confident in every other area of my life. But when it comes to him, I’m a wreck.” She gave me a sad smile. Love makes a lot of us feel that way. No matter how competent and capable we usually feel, love brings up all our...

Falling in Love? Don’t Screw It Up

“Oh, he’s amaaaazing,” Sasha said. “I wish you could meet him. I think he might be the one!!” I smiled. Sasha leaned in as if she was going to tell me a secret, “But I am so worried I’m going to screw this up!” It’s always a delight to hear someone gush about their...

9 Ways to “Speak Dating”

These days, dating has its own language. You’ve probably already heard words like breadcrumbing, ghosting, and love bombing before… But you may not have heard about roaching, mosting, and hesidating. These new words can seem like unnecessary jargon… Until you go out...

This Tool Helps You Navigate The Pain of a Breakup

As you can imagine, I’ve seen a lot of tears in my office. Love is an emotional topic. Some of the hardest moments happen during breakups. My clients tell me it hurts so much they can hardly breathe. They can’t bear it. They don’t know what to do. Should they beg him...

4 Ways to Make Him Attached to You

Perhaps you’ve been with a guy like this. He wants to spend time with you—sometimes. He says how much he loves you—sometimes. He makes future plans with you—sometimes. Other times, he isn’t there at all. He doesn’t call. He doesn’t text. He drops off the face of the...