When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart

Nearly two-thirds of couples spend most of the night apart. Does that horrify you? Or can you empathize completely? It’s long been believed that sleeping apart is a sign of trouble. But many couples credit a better night’s sleep to separate beds.[1] Is better sleep...

He Blocked Me – What Now?

Things weren’t going great to begin with. Maybe you said something he disagreed with. Maybe you had a fight. Maybe he hadn’t been in contact and you just wanted to hear from him. You went to message him… And discovered you couldn’t. He’d blocked you. What do you do...

He Won’t Put Effort In

For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to keep your living environment clean. Many of us also remember the frustration of having a roommate who didn’t do...

Should You Send That Text?

You’ve already sent him three texts. He hasn’t replied. You scroll back through your messages, wondering if you should send one more. Just something to jog his memory and remind him you’re still waiting for his reply—surely it couldn’t hurt? Love is full of moments...

The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...