The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...

From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...

Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?

Look around. Can you spot a single man you’d feel excited about dating? Even if you look on a dating app, it can be hard to muster much enthusiasm. Nearly 1 in 2 adults in the U.S. feel that dating has gotten harder in the last decade.[1] A whopping 3 in 4 singles say...

Three Single Women Walk Into A Bar…

Three single friends go out for a girls night on the town. One of the women is highly attractive. Another is super friendly. The last flirts with everyone. Which friend is most likely to spark a connection with a guy on their evening out? Well, Isn’t It Obvious? The...

He Didn’t Do What He Promised

Men hate being wrong. It’s a stereotype, but it’s often the truth. Think of all the ways a man can mess up in a relationship. He can fail to buy the gift you really wanted for your birthday. He can fail to say what you really needed to hear when you were upset. He can...