Breakup On the Horizon? Do This Next.

Breakups often feel like they come out of nowhere—an argument explodes, a partner withdraws, or you both just “grow apart.” But what if the real trigger is something deeper than just surface-level disagreements? Attachment issues—anxious clinging, avoidant shutdown,...

Cheating Shattered Your Relationship. Now what?

Infidelity can feel like your whole world has been ripped apart. Whether you cheated or you’re the one who got betrayed (or you suspect it’s happening), the emotional fallout is intense—rage, shock, guilt, heartbreak. But in the heat of the moment, there’s one reality...

“Who Does More?” Is Killing Your Relationship

Sometimes, at social gatherings, people hear about my work and immediately start sharing their opinions about relationships. Usually it’s all in good fun, but recently it almost pulled me into a heated argument. Ethan and Alice were a couple in their thirties. They...

Should You Keep Waiting If He Won’t Commit?

For years, Maya and Liam were inseparable. What started as a close friendship grew into something deeper. They shared everything: weekend adventures, work complaints, even their deepest fears. One day, Maya was surprised to find their connection turning physical. When...

Why Do We Love People Who Hurt Us?

Kimberley’s husband destroyed her. She was suffering from a number of health difficulties. She had anxiety and depression. She was living in a tiny one-bedroom apartment and struggling to get by on her reduced income after an expensive divorce. Her friends had...