I love your advice... I am 9 months into a good relationship, with a man who LOVES beautiful women. It's hard, to "compete", in my head... However, he goes home with me. And your empowering me, and reminding me that there is a reason, he goes home with ME, is priceless. I never let him see me sweat, because of your advice. We shall see how this goes. More importantly, if I lose him... I know I will be okay!