Oh my goodness – THIS WORKS!!!!

I have always struggled with being able to speak my mind when I have feelings for someone. I can do it when I am calm, but not when I am in the ‘feeling’ moment. So right after reading this last night, I had my an old fling that had stood me up and I never heard from again, text me. I was able to respond back not with venom, but with, this is how I felt when you did that. (not is a mushy way) and the responses were amazing. I got closure and I said my peace. Then I have another guy that I am dating that is VERY casual, almost too much who was pushing back getting together again. So, the first few times he did this, I either didn’t respond, or I was ‘light’ about it, not wanting to appear clingy. Tonight, I said how it made me feel and that his actions and words were not lining up and it was confusing me. And STOPPED THERE. That is the hard part. ACK! Got a date next week. ha!

Ninette

I have to say James I was a bit skeptical at first when I was starting this program of yours. I’m married have been for 12 years, this is a second marriage for both of us. Your words on respect are SPOT ON! He has done a complete turn around since I started talking to him in a different way.

WOW to be honest I was upset with myself at first because we really could not afford for me to spend the money on the program. But it has saved my marriage (so far) I hope in the long run forever.

Just wanted to take a minute to tell you thanks!

Mary

James,

Compliments of the new year. How are you doing. Thank you for this advice, I’m actually going through this “back up” scenario. Im relieved to hear you spell out the difference. I can gladly say that in my case there is a silver lining. He passed Part 1 and he delivered a moving speech on how I have helped her appreciate love, and how he has grown in the area of love since he met me. He went on and on. I was touched and felt I can give him a chance to get his act together. We dont communicate much or see each other often but our love is growing stronger each day. Thank you once again for your tips, I read them all the time and they are very helpful.

Kind regards,

Felicity