You are helping me redirect my energies on what I should be doing, instead of what they have done. I appreciate you in a way I cannot express because I have not lasted past 4 years in relationship. I have been lucky to have LOVED so much but just not long term. I tend to focus on the emotions and not telling him how I feel and learning to do this is making a huge difference.

My ex was always on the defensive because I used my hurt to break him down from hurting me and this is not productive, only destroys it. Thank you……Thank you.

Raquel

James,

You’re the best…you are the most sincere and right on of all of the coaches…thank you for this email most of all…it gave me a lift hearing your feelings on the subject of ‘talking’ and how men appreciate not having to have constant conversation and how it makes them feel more intimate.

Thanks again!

Maggie

I enjoy your blogs. I tell my story to help people heal. I love public speaking and sharing hope. I am a healer

I too read many psychiatric material in addition to spiritual material. Healer, heal thyself!

I understand, it’s funny what touches some people and not others. Nonprofits need money from anywhere they can get it. Grant Writing does not begin to cover all costs.

I’m enjoying learning about what you write. I have been buried in books and work for years, kind of forgot how to flirt, and utterly clueless about men flirting with me! I’m learning from you.

Thank You for sharing what you know!

Virginia