This article speaks volumes to me. I’ve come out of an abusive relationship, and I was just about to repeat myself.
I got out just in time, but I was wondering whether I had done the right thing, then your article came into my inbox.

Thank you,

Nasima

James,

Thank you for letters and emails – they are always so inspiring. I appreciate how positive and do-able your suggestions are – like the “choose wisely” note!

Thank you for your help, you have changed my life.

Katie Q

I would just like to share that I consider James a big part of my journey. James’ fundamental “secret” about understanding men and respect absolutely changed my dating forever – and the first night I met my boyfriend, now husband to be, I felt he was the one (as he also later shared with me that he felt the same) – keep in mind this was on the first night we met. I immediately applied the respect “technique” even in my first evening with him. And since that time, the journey has continued to lead us to such an amazing place under God’s timing and I couldn’t be happier to tell you that he made a promise towards engagement this past Saturday absolutely also respecting me and affirming I am the woman of his dreams and sharing with me that your wildest dreams really do come true as he slipped the ring on my finger.

Alyson C.