James, Thanks for such powerful, tremendous and thoughtful guidance. This speaks to my heart, because I greatly value depth and strong foundations (as many of us do, at heart). The beauty of what you share is guiding a process that's both beautiful, intentional and practical..because this feels like the exquisite work it takes to weave real intimacy. (Why am I reminded of the care with which bower birds build their nests?) Thank you so much. Sincerely, Olga