James, I love this thank you. I put myself out there recently and did fall in love and it ended with my broken heart. And even though there were many moments I could have pulled back and played it safe I decided to allow for the love. I don't regret it for a second because I got to see he was not the right one for me. I'm a single mom and had not dated in seven years. Not only did I break the spell, I felt joy in a relationship. I got to feel beautiful and sexual again and because of this I feel like I'm becoming more my true self. Flexing my relationship muscles, staying open and following my passion for songwriting. The right one will come. I feel it. Your words validated what I my gut was telling me.

Julie