Hi James, I was so relieved to receive this email as I feel I am ready to attract the kind of man I want . I also feel the dating sites encourage ladies to pursue men .. I don't like doing that .. So I will continue going about my happy social life, going out and I have no doubt I will meet my "soul-mate" who will share the same hobbies etc I do .. I am at the stage where I love myself, my life so I will let you know how things turn out Your Aussie optimistic romantic, Georgy