James, I have been reading your emails for quite some time now and I wanted to thank you for your words. I believe that they have helped me a lot in my relationship, not only with understand my man but in understanding myself as well. Today's article came at just the perfect time and I really needed to hear it - that I shouldn't wait until all the little problems are fixed before being warm. Sometimes I get frustrated and then I realize that I'm doing the exact thing that I'm getting frustrated at him for. Keep doing what you're doing. I always look forward to your emails and ways I can be more irresistible. Thank you, Edie